A choice could
change your life, or someone else’s. A choice could destroy your life, or save
someone else’s. Imagine, our very lives
and where they are heading are based on choices. Life is just choice; you could end it in a
second. And many teenagers do. Between the ages of 15 and 34, one of the three
leading causes of death is suicide. Teen suicide is a terrible, but I believe
preventable, death. How worthless and hopeless do you have to feel to choose to
end your own life? How alone and
desperate must you be to commit suicide? Suicide is just one choice, but so is
choosing to save a life.
If we just reached
out to those who don’t fit in, to those no one bothers to talk to, to those who
are alone and struggling, perhaps we could save someone’s life. It’s so easy to
judge and to look the other way. When we look at other people, we may think: “That
person’s just so weird..... that teen is just too wild... why should I even
want to be their friend?” But what if we chose to live out Christ’s love towards
people who are usually pushed aside because they aren’t cool enough or are just
different? Instead of condemning, what
if we followed in Jesus’ footsteps by being a friend to the unruly and wild
ones? A smile, a kind word, or just a gesture that shows that they’re not
invisible or too far gone to be saved goes a long way.
Sometimes we get
so caught up in our own lives and affairs that we forget about others. I’m
speaking to myself here. How many times have I judged someone by mere
appearance? How many times have I looked the other way because I thought
someone was too strange, wild or annoying to waste any time on them? Too many
times to count. But the truth is, every person on this earth is broken inside
and just covering it up in their different ways. Each person has a story, has
some kind of struggle they’re going through and just need help. Every person on
earth as a void inside them that only Jesus can fill. Everyone, including me
and you, needs to be healed by the Saviour. I’m so quick to condemn, but how
can I judge when I have no idea what someone else is going through, when I
haven’t walked a mile in their shoes? Instead of judging or ignoring others, we
should be showing the people around us the love of Jesus. We should be showing
them that there is Someone who loves them so much that He died for them. Our actions
should point others to Jesus. And who knows, the choice to be friendly and kind
to another could be the one that causes them to choose life over death.